Your 8-Step Process to Living Your Biggest, Boldest Life

欢迎来到免费和无所畏惧的播客的第26集。现在,我将与您分享8个步骤,对于那些想要大胆的人过着最大的生活,我认为这很重要,当然,不仅创造了一家企业,而且创造他们梦dream以求的业务。beplay通用我们在这里瞄准高大!

收看下面的情节:

Show Notes:

  • [02:02]您不想要的生活比您想要的更有用
  • [03:51] Examples of strong boundaries in my business
  • [06:08]我如何在最新提议中使用特殊的保证来设定正确的期望
  • [07:50]喧嚣之后发生的事情
  • [08:53] The role of manifestation in living your boldest life
  • [10:28] The kind of growth uncovering your traumas can lead to

提及:

Transcript

1.找到清晰度

确定您当前生活,环境和思维方式中的任何东西,这些都不是您真正想要的或不会引起您共鸣的任何东西。开始无情地消除。

然后,定义您想要的内容,制定计划并开始对其进行努力。

当我的个人成长旅程开始时,我花了足够的时间意识到,要对自己说实话,定义我真正想要的东西,并制定有关如何获得它的逐步计划,我在这里。

Waking up with excitement, having a smile on my face while working, writing daily – which is my favorite thing. Inspiring people and being productive and disciplined without needing anyone to make me do any of it.

但是,直到我发现自己的激情 - 个人发展,结合了表达自己和适合我的正确媒介的最佳方法,并阅读了我可以如何将其转变为更多东西的所有内容。

然后,我发现自由和独立对我来说比我想象的要重要。我尽我所能成为自雇人士和位置独立

因此,像乡村(Country)这样的障碍,拥有老板,工作我不喜欢的工作,每天8个小时被困在办公室里,被告知该怎么做,不得不在一定时间醒来,就不再存在了。因为我竭尽所能删除它们。

My point here is: elimination is one of the key processes in life, and it’s beautiful.定义你不想在生活中发现be more useful than trying to figure out what you truly want.从您的生活中消除有毒的人总比一直以寻找新的人来寻求关注和认可。

So if you really don’t know what to do with your life, start by eliminating what you don’t like about it.

Don’t get others involved in that. It’s your path to walk. They have nothing to do with it.

我几乎从不与他人分享我的目标,我只是时不时地提到东西,一旦实现了,我对此更加开放。这使我保持专注,并且不会让别人的意见干扰。

You can do the same.

当我有一个新的业务目标或切换到一个全beplay通用新的业务模式时,从阅读与之相关的所有内容并向那些实现我所追求的人学习的所有内容开始,这很容易和有趣。

But if you’re not much of a reader, that’s totally fine. You can buy a course or work with a coach. You can also get out there, talk to people and learn directly from them. Or simply start working on something and see how it goes.

只是做点什么。

That’s probably the best advice I can give you.

As for success and happiness, they’re inevitable once you’re on the right path. Stay consistent, and you’ll be creating your boldest life possible.

2.说出你的真相。

根本的真实性是游戏的名称。没有什么能像这样感觉好了。

我很少遇到那些说出自己的真理的人,但是当我这样做时,除了尊重他们之外,我什么也没有。

That might mean offending some people, being brutally honest, rejecting and breaking society norms, but that’s part of the journey.

3. Set strong boundaries.

您决定谁进入您的能源领域。

I say No more often than Yes, and while that sometimes means missing out on opportunities, it also means protecting my space, the life I’ve created for myself, and my vision.

以下是在我的业务中设定强大界限的一些示例:beplay通用

  • 没有立即回复电子邮件或DMS。
  • To some of them – not at all.

Usually, the promotional ones or people offering free stuff and only taking my time, especially when it’s obvious that they will want something in return down the road.

I used to respond to all of these out of politeness. I kept explaining myself, or just diving into collabs or checking out people’s work, and it cost me much more than just my time. Also my attention and my motivation. Things like that lowered my vibration on a daily basis and only more and more emails were coming.

现在,在浏览了其中一百万的感觉之后,我花了我一秒钟才能看到值得关注的东西,以后可以等待什么,并在我的电子邮件框中停留一会儿,以及现在可以删除的东西。

如果您没有设置任何界限,那么您最终将每周花费数小时来回应那些不在这里的人,以发展您的业务,但只想从您身上做些事情。beplay通用因此,您将没有足够的时间来从事重要项目,并关注真正感到融洽并打算发展业务的人和想法。beplay通用

  • Another examples of boundaries in my business is that I don’t do any calls or any live content.

我知道这听起来太激烈了,但这只是我做事的方式。当然不会这样如果你是教练,但这是为什么这不是我选择的商业模式的主要原因之一。beplay通用

耗尽我的精力,不会让我感觉良好,根本不需要从事我的业务活动。beplay通用

I think it’s cool that actually these 2 – calls and going live on socials – aren’t a necessity to be a full-time blogger or course creator. Good times we live in. You can choose what to do based on what you love the most, how much of an introvert you are, and what your favourite way of teaching is.

  • Another boundary I set is related to expectations.

You need to set limits with clients, students, email subscribers, social media followers, and even blog readers.

You get to decide how often they get to hear from you, how much support they get in a paid program, in what detail you respond to their questions via email, and even what guarantees you have for your products.

例如,我的最新报价之一具有反担保,这意味着我不提供任何退款。那是因为it’s a Blog Audit而且此优惠是如此排他性,您将收到的PDF包含如此强大的信息,一旦看到/使用,就不会看不见/未使用(这意味着您将收到的收到的远远超过您支付的费用)。我在销售页面上清楚地说明了这一点,因此,我确保没有人可以购买并索要他们的钱。全取决于你。这把我带到了下一个点。

4.成为你自己的老板。

如果您尚未开展业务,但愿意,请继续前进。beplay通用与您所拥有的一切一起去。

至少有一件事您真的很擅长。奉献自己的生活并掌握它。然后,开始教授它(您只需要比初学者更多的了解即可真正做到这一点)。

Choose your business model and learn the ins and outs of it, and start building your very own empire.

If the kind of business you want to create has to do with blogging or digital products, then check outprevious episodes of the podcast因为那是我的专长。

5.都知道喧嚣和对齐。

我自己的革命始于一个喧嚣时期,在那儿,我付出了很大的努力和压力,将自己喜欢的东西转变为职业并变得尽可能独立。对于我来说,建立纪律,从头开始学习事情是必要的(并最终发展思维和学习任何东西的能力,我设定了更快的速度),多次失去希望并再次找到它。

然后是对齐阶段。当我了解到更多的工作并不意味着更多的收入,实际上,当我们生活在丰富的宇宙中时,情况可能是正确的。您可以工作最少的小时,玩得开心,过着自己的最佳生活,同时拥有所有自由,产生影响并获得比您想象的更多。

I talk more about this in episode 13 of the podcast:如何从“喧嚣”阶段转变为“对齐”阶段

6.进入表现。

研究个人能量学和表现,并学习宇宙定律。一切都在为您而不是对您而发生。

如果您内心深处有欲望,并且在您的脑海中有一个想法,那就是出于某种原因而放在那里。您需要实现它的一切。

在表现方面,有很多有关和练习的知识,因此请找到书籍,播客,博客以及与您共鸣的任何其他内容,并潜入其中。

我的一门课程,无所畏惧的内容,将品牌和营销与灵性和个人发展相结合。我使用人类设计的原则来帮助您了解自己的独特能量,并在业务中使用它来解锁最佳内容并产生深远的影响。beplay通用

这是一个美丽的节目,数百名学生已经参加了,如果您的品牌和业务尚不远远不到您想象的丰富和一致的现实,beplay通用那你可能也想检查一下

7.自爱,同情和宽恕。

Living your boldest life and running your dream business doesn’t involve anger, judgment or being hard on yourself.

我们谁都跑不了。当您遇到与您的旅程相同或不同的人时,请给他们爱和同情。

这是关键,因为不原谅自己或他人实际上可以阻止您发展业务或享受其任何方面。beplay通用

该过程的下一步将其进一步发展。

8. Heal traumas.

Your traumas are not your fault, but your healing is your responsibility. One of the main phases in your personal, spiritual and business growth is to get to know your traumas, get to the bottom of them, and start the healing process.

This is bigger than you and me. The moment you start doing it,你被解开了,,,,break generational patterns and pave the way for a new legacy.

There are some bestselling books about this that can really change your life. The one I have, and which I’m slowly going through as it’s so profound, is called It Didn’t Start With You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End The Cycle.

The title speaks for itself so there’s nothing else I need to say about it. There are cycles to end that weren’t started by us, and the sooner we work on that, the better.

我知道这种内在工作并不适合所有人,但对我来说,这是必要的。这是解放自己,发挥自己的潜力,找到和平并同时过着大胆生活的唯一途径。